What better way to tell an ex that you want them back than with an awesome song?
There are so many songs about getting back together that you have to wonder if it’s a compelling way to convince someone to give your relationship another shot. But of course, you’ll have to supplement that with another similarly grand gesture.
Maybe playing the song on a boombox outside your ex’s window. Or perhaps with a bouquet of their favorite flowers? Or better yet, getting a live band to sing it for them when you get the chance to go out with them again.
Whatever the method you choose to try and make your argument to get back together, here’s a great selection of getting back together songs to choose from.
Maroon 5 – Payphone
Now picture this: there’s a guy at a payphone calling you up to ask you to get back together with him. He’s spent all his change just to do this, and heck knows why he just doesn’t do it over his mobile phone. Either way, the guy’s desperate! Is that the type of guy you want to get back together with? Probably not, but it’s a great Maroon 5 song that deserves a spot on this list!
Back together lyrics: Now baby don’t hang up,
So I can tell you what you need to know,
Baby I’m begging you just please don’t go,
So I can tell you what you need to know
Kid Rock feat. Sheryl Crow – Picture
This is a song that’s perfect for people who took a while before they realized that they want to get back together. Picture is about a couple who has separated, and they’ve both moved on with their lives. That is, until they find each others’ photos. And it reminded them of how good things used to be when they were together.
Back together lyrics: I thought about you for a long time
Can’t seem to get you off my mind
I can’t understand why we’re living life this way
I found your picture today
I swear I’ll change my ways
I just called to say I want you to come back home
Peaches and Herb – Reunited
You can’t have a reconciliation playlist without this song! The first time it was head by Laura Greene (the woman who replaced Peaches Barker in the duo), she couldn’t help but cry. That can only mean that Reunited is one of those songs that’s bound to make your ex shed a tear as he/she considers getting back together with you.
Back together lyrics: I was a fool to ever leave your side
Me minus you is such a lonely ride
The breakup we had has made me lonesome and sad
I realize I love you ’cause I want you bad, hey, hey
Player – Baby Come Back
Now for a song that could lead to some sexy time once your ex decides to get back together with you. Baby Come Back exemplifies a wonderful reconciliation song because it has all the important elements – remorse, the apology, an invitation for your ex to blame it all on you, and just a touch of begging. There’s no way your ex can resist this song! But for a bit of fun trivia, Beckett actually wrote this song for a girl he dated for 5 years. But when asked if they got back together, Beckett said, “No! Thank God!”
Back together lyrics: Baby come back, any kind of fool could see
There was something in everything about you
Baby come back, you can blame it all on me
I was wrong, and I just can’t live without you
Jason Mraz – I Won’t Give Up
Now there’s a title that sums up everything you want to say to your ex. I Won’t Give Up is actually about not giving up on the relationship even if things get rough between the singer and his ex. And while a breakup might not be explicitly stated, it’s one of the signs of a rough patch that you wouldn’t want to give up on if you really love each other, right?
Back together lyrics: And when you’re needing your space to do some navigating
I’ll be here patiently waiting to see what you find
‘Cause even the stars they burn, some even fall to the earth
We’ve got a lot to learn, God knows we’re worth it
Mariah Carey – We Belong Together
If you want a song that captures the absolute misery and regret you feel post-breakup, listen to this Mariah Carey song. We Belong Together is one of those songs that you’ll want to listen to over and over again when you start to wish you had never broken up with your ex. And it’s also a song you can post on social media to maybe give your ex a hint that you want to get back together,
Back together lyrics: When you left I lost a part of me
It’s still so hard to believe
Come back baby, please
‘Cause we belong together
Rupert Holmes – Escape (The Pina Colada Song)
Okay, so it’s got a good mix of infidelity and getting tired of your relationship, but it’s actually a pretty cute song to hint that you and someone you’re having a falling out with actually belong together. In Escape, the narrator sings about getting a little tired of his lady, and so he answers an ad in the newspaper made by a woman looking for a man. Later on they decide to meet up at a bar. And just take a guess who the woman is.
Back together lyrics: So I waited with high hopes, then she walked in the place
I knew her smile in an instant, I knew the curve of her face
It was my own lovely lady, and she said, “Oh, it’s you”
And we laughed for a moment, and I said, “I never knew”
The Jackson 5 – I Want You Back
Sometimes we start to take the one we love for granted when our eyes wander towards other attractive people around. But it’s when they get up and leave you that you start to realize how good you were together. I Want You Back is a cute, upbeat song that captures that feeling. And if you feel like adding in a dance number to your grand gesture when you want to get back together, this is the perfect song to do that!
Back together lyrics: Oh, baby, give me one more chance (to show you that I love you)
Won’t you please let me (back in your heart)
Oh, darling, I was blind to let you go (let you go baby)
Cause now since I see you it is all (I want you back)
Coldplay – The Scientist
If you want a heartfelt ballad to sing to your ex, Coldplay has a wide selection of beautifully written songs to get the job done. The Scientist is a song that sounds much like a plea to your ex to think about all the good times you had as seen in the line, “Let’s go back to the start.” When Chris Martin was asked what the song is about, he had a very simple answer, “It’s weird that whatever else is on your mind, whether it’s the downfall of global economics or terrible environmental troubles, the thing that always gets you most is when you fancy someone.” And isn’t that so true when you can’t get your mind off an ex you still love?
Back together lyrics: Come up to meet you, tell you I’m sorry
You don’t know how lovely you are
I had to find you, tell you I need you
Tell you I set you apart
Tell me your secrets, and ask me your questions
Oh let’s go back to the start
Running in circles, coming up tails
Heads on a science apart
Hoobastank – The Reason
Every reconciliation song should start off with an apology, especially if you’re part of the reason you broke up. In The Reason the narrator mixes in an apology with endearing lines telling his ex that she’s the reason he wants to start over and become a better person. And telling someone that you love them so much that you’d change for the better for them is a sure way to get back in their good graces!
Back together lyrics: I’m not a perfect person
I never meant to do those things to you
And so I have to say before I go
That I just want you to know
I’ve found a reason for me to change who I used to be
A reason to start over new and the reason is you
The Script – The Man Who Can’t Be Moved
Can’t seem to find the grand gesture to go with your song? Try out what the narrator of The Man Who Can’t Be Moves is doing. The song is about a guy who’s camped out at the spot where he and his ex met. And he’s just hoping she changes her mind and gets back together with him.
Back together lyrics: There’s someone I’m waiting for if it’s a day, a month, a year
Gotta stand my ground even if it rains or snows
If she changes her mind this is the first place she will go
Take That – Back For Good
Back for Good is about a guy who’s been trying his best not to get back together with his ex. But with his home filled with reminders of her, he can’t seem to do it. He remarks that she’s been doing great since the breakup, and that’s kind of what’s bothering him the most. So he says that he’ll do anything and admit to anything if she’d just take him back.
Back together lyrics: Whatever I said, whatever I did I didn’t mean it
I just want you back for good
Whenever I’m wrong just tell me the song and I’ll sing it
You’ll be right and understood
Duncan Sheik – Half-Life
At first, you might think it’s a song about a guy during his quarter-life crisis. But then you notice he’s addressing the song to someone who seems to be the “cure” to his situation. As it turns out, he’s living his half-life due to a woman who has left him. And his only plea is for them to fall back in love so they can both escape, assuming she’s living a sort of half-life too.
Back together lyrics: Cause lately something here don’t feel right
This is just a half-life, without you I am breaking down
Wake me, let me see the daylight, save me from this half-life
Let’s you and I escape, escape from time
Come on let’s fall in love
Foo Fighters – Walking After You
Walking After You is one of The Foo Fighters’ more mellow tracks, and it’s probably one of the sweetest ones they’ve written. In it, the narrator laments how things just aren’t going great without the one he loves. He says that if she’s accept his surrender, he’d do it more often as long as she stays. And so whenever she walks out on him, he’ll always be walking after her.
Back together lyrics: If you’d accept surrender
I’ll give up some more
Weren’t you adored
I cannot be without you
Matter of fact
I’m on your back
Elvis Presley – You Were Always On My Mind
The way Elvis sings this is just so hypnotic and heartbreaking. You Were Always On My Mind is about him lamenting the fact that he didn’t really treat his girl as well as he should have. And now he’s hoping he still has a place in her heart for him. If you manage to sing this to your ex, there’s no way he/she will be able to resist taking you back!
Back together lyrics: Tell me, tell me that your sweet love hasn’t died
Give me, give me one more chance
To keep you satisfied, satisfied
And with this playlist, we wish you the best of luck with your reconciliation with your ex. And if that doesn’t work out the way you planned, well we also have a great playlist for breakup songs that might help you recover!
FAQs
How do you let go of someone you love who can't be with you songs? ›
- Let Somebody Go – Coldplay Feat. ...
- 'If You Love Somebody Set Them Free' – Sting.
- 'Goodbye My Lover' – James Blunt.
- 'Let Her Go' – Passenger.
- 'Tattoo' – Jordin Sparks.
- 'The Last Time' – The Script.
- 'I Will Always Love You' – Whitney Houston.
- 'There You'll Be' – Faith Hill.
The researchers point out that the findings align with the reality that about 50 percent of separated couples get back together again. The researchers also note that a breakup is often harder on the person doing it because of the doubt that lingers in the decision.
How do I rekindle my past relationship? ›- Take it slooow. I know, I know. ...
- Figure out what really you want. ...
- View it as a new chapter in an old relationship. ...
- Talk about what you did when you were apart... ...
- 5. … ...
- Listen to your gut. ...
- Address old issues. ...
- Have a trust chat.
Old flames often rekindle, she theorizes, because a physical, chemical imprinting occurs when we meet our first love. It typically happens when we are young and impressionable. "What we find is that once those emotional memories get started, those feelings are strong and resilient," Kalish says.
What is the best song to say I miss you? ›- Beyoncé, "I Miss You" ...
- Drake, "Marvins Room" ...
- The Rolling Stones, "Miss You" ...
- Robyn, "Missing U" ...
- The Beatles, "For No One" ...
- Cynthia Erivo, "Fly Before You Fall" ...
- Incubus, "I Miss You" ...
- Bill Withers, "Ain't No Sunshine"
1–15 | 16–30 |
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1. "Don't Forget About Us" Mariah Carey | 16. "I Fall to Pieces" Patsy Cline |
2. "Back to December" Taylor Swift | 17. "Young in Love" Thelma Plum |
3. "We Belong Together" Mariah Carey | 18. "Un-break My Heart" Toni Braxton |
- Another Dawn - feat. IrfraneBreakbot.
- 1000 TimesSara Bareilles.
- I Want the One I Can't Have - 2011 RemasterThe Smiths.
- Crown of LoveArcade Fire.
- I Can't Make You Love MeBonnie Raitt.
- When We Were YoungAdele.
- 2Good4MeBreakbot.
- When You Love SomeoneEndah N Rhesa.
What is a mutual breakup? A mutual breakup meaning one in which both parties in a relationship decide to go their separate ways can tend to be just as difficult as other forms of breakups.
How do you move on from someone? ›- Acknowledge the truth of the situation. ...
- Identify relationship needs — and deal breakers. ...
- Accept what the love meant to you. ...
- Look to the future. ...
- Prioritize other relationships. ...
- Spend time on yourself. ...
- Give yourself space. ...
- Understand it may take some time.
Many relationships can recover from taking a break and actually turn out to be stronger than before, but that is not always the case. If you and your partner are unable to set clear boundaries and rules in the beginning, or are unable to stick to those things during the break, then your relationship might not make it.
Can an ex fall back in love with you? ›
According to experts, it's totally possible to fall back in love with someone you used to date, and the reason why makes sense. "Once you love someone, unless your respect for them is destroyed, you can always love them again," Susan Trombetti, matchmaker and CEO of Exclusive Matchmaking, tells Elite Daily.
How do you fix a relationship after a break? ›- Acknowledge past hurt. ...
- Respect your partner's perspective. ...
- Discuss what you've learned since the breakup. ...
- Figure out how to make this time better. ...
- Get curious about both yourself and your partner's emotions. ...
- Create time to connect.
7 Ways To Make Your Ex Think About You Constantly - YouTube
How do you reconnect with someone you love? ›- Ask Good Questions. ...
- Learn Something New Together. ...
- Write Weekly “Thank You” Notes. ...
- Synchronize Work Breaks. ...
- Keep a Daily Journal Together. ...
- Set Aside Time For Silliness. ...
- Get “Away” Together. ...
- Compliment Each Other.
The results showed just 15% of people actually won their ex back, while 14% got back together just to break up again, and 70% never reconnected at all. But although it sounds like a small number, a few success stories showed how it is possible to work things out if you put the time and effort in.
How do you hit up an old fling? ›- Be Confident in Your Decision to Rekindle the Magic. ...
- Leave the Past Behind You. ...
- Say You're Sorry. ...
- Start Again in a New Way. ...
- Treat This as a New Relationship.
First loves defied the divorce rate, too: 78% of reunited happily and remained in love over many years of marriage, with divorce a minimal 1.5%.
What is a good song to send to someone you love? ›21. "Love Story"—Taylor Swift | 31. "How Do I Live"—Trisha Yearwood |
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26. "Angel of Mine"—Monica | 36. "Be My Baby"—Ronettes |
27. "Thank God I Found You"—Mariah Carey, Joe and 98 Degrees | 37. "When I Look at You"—Miley Cyrus |
28. "Crazy for You"—Madonna | 38. "The Way I Am"—Ingrid Michaelson |
- Maroon 5 - Memories. ...
- Green Day – Good Riddance (Time of Your Life) ...
- Mariah Carey, Boyz II Men - One Sweet Day. ...
- Richard Marx - Hold On To The Nights. ...
- Sarah McLachlan - I Will Remember You. ...
- Bryan Adams - Summer of '69. ...
- Van Morrison - Brown-Eyed Girl. ...
- John Cougar Mellencamp - Jack and Diane.
These romantic songs were the favorites and most suggested:
“A Thousand Years” by Christina Perri. “My Heart Will Go On (Love Theme from Titanic)” by Céline Dion. “A Moment Like This” by Kelly Clarkson. “Love Story” by Taylor Swift.
How do you make your ex regret leaving you? ›
- Limit contact with your ex, but stay in sight. ...
- Don't be the backup plan. ...
- Become a better version of yourself. ...
- Make them think you're over them. ...
- Keep calm and move on. ...
- Get successful. ...
- Expand your social circle. ...
- Evoke a little jealousy.
The answer is different for everyone, but many men will experience a pang of regret within about a month to six weeks after breaking up with you.
How do you let go of someone you can't live without? ›- 10 Ways to Let Go of Someone.
- Decide Whether the Relationship Is Worth It. Behavior psychologist Wendy M. ...
- Have a Conversation. ...
- Cut Off Contact. ...
- Accept That You're Only in Control of Your Own Actions. ...
- Lean on Friends and Family. ...
- Trust the Process. ...
- Prioritize Self-Care.
- Grieving is the first step of the process. ...
- Put someone else on speed dial. ...
- Structure your days. ...
- Put extra focus on self-care. ...
- Take a step up in your next relationship. ...
- Get excited for your future. ...
- Purge your pictures (and your social media), but don't act rashly.
- Two Black Cadillacs. Carrie Underwood. ...
- Jolene. Dolly Parton. ...
- Girl Crush. Little Big Town. ...
- (If Loving You Is Wrong) I Don't Want to Be Right [Single Version] Barbara Mandrell. ...
- More Like Her. Miranda Lambert. ...
- From a Table Away. Sunny Sweeney. ...
- Stay. Sugarland. ...
- Does He Love You. Reba McEntire & Linda Davis.
- #1 – Ask yourself how determined you are to do this. ...
- #2 – Make three lists and refer to them often. ...
- #3 – Cut him off. ...
- #4 – Believe that you will find another love. ...
- #5 – Get back out there!
- 1 Text her to invite her to talk in person.
- 2 Apologize sincerely for what you did.
- 3 Listen to her side of the story.
- 4 Ask for forgiveness.
- 5 Offer to make it up to her.
- 6 Shower her with compliments so she knows you care.
- 7 Take steps to be a better person.
The average guy feels puzzled after being blocked. Remember, most men aren't trying to make you annoyed or sad. So, when they're suddenly shut off from contacting you, it can often leave them in a confused state. This confusion contributes to the frustration, anger or guilt they may feel.
Which song is very emotional? ›- 'Nothing Compares 2 U' by Sinéad O'Connor. ...
- 'Hurt' by Johnny Cash. ...
- 'Only Love Can Break Your Heart' by Neil Young. ...
- 'Teardrop' by Massive Attack. ...
- 'I Know It's Over' by The Smiths. ...
- 'No Distance Left to Run' by Blur. ...
- 'The Boxer' by Simon & Garfunkel. ...
- 'No Name #5' by Elliott Smith.
- 'You Oughta Know' – Alanis Morissette.
- 'Losing You' – Solange. ...
- 'Rolling in the Deep' – Adele. ...
- 'Lover You Should've Come Over' – Jeff Buckley. ...
- 'We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together' – Taylor Swift. ...
- 'The Winner Takes It All' – Abba. ...
- 'Somebody Else' – The 1975. ...
How do you detach from someone you love deeply? ›
- Identify the reason. Ask yourself why you're now deciding to detach from the relationship. ...
- Release your emotions. ...
- Don't react, respond. ...
- Start small. ...
- Keep a journal. ...
- Meditate. ...
- Be patient with yourself. ...
- Look forward.
It could go like this: "You've been a great friend to me for many months, and I treasure our relationship. There's something I want to talk to you about so I can better understand something that I might be creating a story around." State your issues in an "I felt hurt when you _______."
How long does an average relationship break last? ›The exact temporal parameters can vary from couple to couple, but 3 weeks apart is a good baseline to set. Why three weeks? “You need about a week to let your body and mind adjust to not being around someone that you've been in a relationship with,” says Farrell.
How do I know if my breakup is temporary? ›- You haven't moved on. ...
- You still hang out together. ...
- They've been sending you mixed messages. ...
- You're learning how to communicate with your ex. ...
- They reminisce with you. ...
- They reach out during trials. ...
- They ask about you through friends. ...
- You have both been working on your issues.
Saving a relationship after a breakup is no easy task, especially if you and your partner are trying to resolve issues such as emotional withholding and silent treatment. Luckily, most relationships can be changed for the better with a bit of time and effort, as well as through effective couples relationship coaching.
Can ex lovers become lovers again? ›Research finds that 40-50 percent of people have reunited with an ex to start a new relationship. On-again relationships tend to suffer lower relationship quality and worse functioning than never-broken relationships. People often resume relationships with ex-partners because of lingering feelings.
How long does it take for an ex to come back? ›"If it was over something really trivial, for example, you may be able to patch things up in a day or two. If it was over something more serious, it's a good idea to take a month apart so that you have time to get your emotions in check and get clarity about the situation.
How do you save a relationship when he wants out? ›- Work on yourselves as individuals first. In order to save and strengthen a relationship, both partners need to do their own inner work. ...
- Fight better. ...
- Express gratitude for the little things. ...
- Savor your time together. ...
- Do monthly check-ins. ...
- Celebrate each other. ...
- Stay curious about your partner.
- Be a friend. Before you two began dating, you were friends, and that's how your ex got to be your partner. ...
- Gain their respect. ...
- Clear intentions. ...
- Talk about it. ...
- Apologize. ...
- Take responsibility. ...
- Be honest. ...
- Try to reignite feelings.
There is no easy way to deal with a breakup, but remaining silent actually speaks volumes to your ex. After all, actions speak louder than words! By staying silent, you're telling your ex that you're strong, resilient, and independent. You're relying on yourself — and no one else — for your own happiness.
What is the best song to say I miss you? ›
- Beyoncé, "I Miss You" ...
- Drake, "Marvins Room" ...
- The Rolling Stones, "Miss You" ...
- Robyn, "Missing U" ...
- The Beatles, "For No One" ...
- Cynthia Erivo, "Fly Before You Fall" ...
- Incubus, "I Miss You" ...
- Bill Withers, "Ain't No Sunshine"
- Into You – Ariana Grande. ...
- Treat You Better – Shawn Mendes. ...
- Stuck Like Glue – Sugarland. ...
- Call Me Maybe – Carly Rae Jepsen. ...
- You Belong With Me – Taylor Swift. ...
- Teenage Dream – Katy Perry.
Meaning: It's very difficult to forget old things, especially the first love.
Who wrote the song Old Flames Can't hold a candle to you? ›Old Flames Can't Hold a Candle to You
What is a good song to send to someone you love? ›21. "Love Story"—Taylor Swift | 31. "How Do I Live"—Trisha Yearwood |
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26. "Angel of Mine"—Monica | 36. "Be My Baby"—Ronettes |
27. "Thank God I Found You"—Mariah Carey, Joe and 98 Degrees | 37. "When I Look at You"—Miley Cyrus |
28. "Crazy for You"—Madonna | 38. "The Way I Am"—Ingrid Michaelson |
- Maroon 5 - Memories. ...
- Green Day – Good Riddance (Time of Your Life) ...
- Mariah Carey, Boyz II Men - One Sweet Day. ...
- Richard Marx - Hold On To The Nights. ...
- Sarah McLachlan - I Will Remember You. ...
- Bryan Adams - Summer of '69. ...
- Van Morrison - Brown-Eyed Girl. ...
- John Cougar Mellencamp - Jack and Diane.
These romantic songs were the favorites and most suggested:
“A Thousand Years” by Christina Perri. “My Heart Will Go On (Love Theme from Titanic)” by Céline Dion. “A Moment Like This” by Kelly Clarkson. “Love Story” by Taylor Swift.
- 'First Day of My Life' – Bright Eyes.
- 'Be My Baby' – The Ronettes.
- 'I Need You' – Faith Hill & Tim McGraw.
- 'If I Ain't Got You / Gravity' – Alicia Keys & John Mayer.
- 'I Want to Know What Love Is' – Foreigner.
- 'Shelter from the Storm' – Bob Dylan.
- He is touching you.
- He remembers small details about you.
- You two are social media friends.
- He gives you eye contact.
- He makes an effort in the conversations you have.
- He's using “alpha” body language.
- He asks if you have a boyfriend.
- He gets jealous when you talk to other guys.
- Hi Baby / Pumpkin/ Sweetheart/ (other cute nicknames for your crush).
- You're Always on My Mind.
- I Dreamt A Sweet Dream About You Last Night.
- You're The First Thing on My Mind.
- You Will Always Be My Love.
- How Can You Make Me Be So Happy?
- I Never Want to Lose You.
Is there a fire that doesn't burn? ›
A cool flame or invisible flame is a flame having a maximal temperature below about 400 °C (752 °F). It is usually produced in a chemical reaction of a certain fuel-air mixture. In contrast to an ordinary flame, the reaction is not vigorous and releases little heat, light, or carbon dioxide.
What is considered an old flame? ›An old flame is someone with whom you once had a romantic relationship. Sue was seen dating an old flame.
Can hold a candle to you? ›An expression describing a person or thing that is distinctly inferior to someone or something else: “Senator Nelson is extremely knowledgeable, but as a speaker, he can't hold a candle to Senator Delano.”
Where did can't hold a candle to? ›The phrase can't hold a candle to has its roots in the 1600s, when the lowly apprentice to a master of a craft might only be fit to hold a candle in order to provide light for the master while he tends to a problem. An apprentice who was not even skillful enough to hold a candle for his master was worthless, indeed.
Who Wrote old flames Dolly Parton? ›Old Flames Can't Hold a Candle to You